When it comes to relationships, there are few rules that are to be followed. One of them is that if you date one guy and you break up, you don´t start dating his friend. But what if you were never really officially in a relationship with the first guy, what if they are not close friends but rather acquaintances, what if... Can you break a rule without being the bitch who walks over people?
On an unrelated note - is it ok to make a relationship prejudice based on past experience with a specimen of the kind? Like if you dated let´s say a guy who liked fishing and he hurt you in the end(let´s say with a fish hook), can you make a rule of not dating fishermen? Well, of course you can do that, but is it ok? Then what do you do when you meet a cute and witty guy who asks you out, but also likes fishing?
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úterý 25. ledna 2011
čtvrtek 6. května 2010
Thinking about people
What defines whether we are a good person or a bad one? Is it the way we treat our friends and family or is it the way we treat our mere acquaintances or even enemies?
If the former - what if your friend behaves nicely enough to you but thinks you are a fool or a loser and does not trust your judgement one bit?
If the latter - are people obliged to be nice to everyone? Do you have to smile and be polite to people that are rude to you? Do you have to try to find common ground with everyone?
On the other hand it cannot work like my tribe good, the other tribe bad, let´s stab them in their backs, right?
Which makes me think that the boundaries can never be clear. And even when you figure them out for yourself, they will never match the boundaries that other people have created for themselves. In the end - situations necessarily lead to a mess, especially when someone judges others without applying the same standards to herself/himself.
If the former - what if your friend behaves nicely enough to you but thinks you are a fool or a loser and does not trust your judgement one bit?
If the latter - are people obliged to be nice to everyone? Do you have to smile and be polite to people that are rude to you? Do you have to try to find common ground with everyone?
On the other hand it cannot work like my tribe good, the other tribe bad, let´s stab them in their backs, right?
Which makes me think that the boundaries can never be clear. And even when you figure them out for yourself, they will never match the boundaries that other people have created for themselves. In the end - situations necessarily lead to a mess, especially when someone judges others without applying the same standards to herself/himself.
úterý 23. března 2010
If in real life the only reason to be in a relationship is reason, something is wrong. If in real life you have the rare luck and find someone who loves you back, it is never enough and in the end there is always something that fucks it all up.
It would be really nice if fairy tale endings happened to actual people. People who live around me. It would surely help me stay an optimist.
It would be really nice if fairy tale endings happened to actual people. People who live around me. It would surely help me stay an optimist.
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