středa 24. února 2010

Night time questions

Through pain and suffering we grow, but we do not want to get hurt or be hurting. Is personal growth the silver lining of break ups? And if so, is it enough to make us not regret that the relationship with somebody we loved has ended? How long are you allowed to grieve before you become pathetic? How do you move on? Yes, it would be nice to move on to someone else, but how to manage that when you do see less than few people worth falling for? And even if you did manage that - will you ever heal completely?

2 komentáře:

Irenka řekl(a)...

This sound SO like Sex and the City! :-) Depends what you call healing - like you said, you learn. Every relationship you had has taught you something, given you something. I don't think these things ever go away... And if you were hurt, it just takes time. BTW I do not recommend trying to get a new boyfriend just to get over someone else (aka rebound :-)) Always ends bad...

K řekl(a)...

Yep, rebound ends bad, but may be it is the only way how to move on.