A girl always looks for her father in every boy she dates. Maybe its true generally, maybe just in certain cases. I might be one of them. The scariest part is that you might think that he's different than your father, but as time goes by, you somehow realize that you were just fooling yourself.
Funny part being that when you want someone to commiserate with, your mother will understand you, however she has learned to live with precisely those character flaws, so she will not see them as a deal breaker.